constantly torn between “if it’s meant to be, it will be” and “if you want it, go get it”
The way I see it, it’s like this.
If its a goal, skill, ability go for GO GET IT NO MATTER WHAT. Use very vestige of strength and will power to get it.
but if its more relationship/love related, that you might have to relax on. Sometimes you need to put forth effort tom maintain a healthy relationship. But you can’t force love.